Maybe what I can do is broaden that a little bit. I'm just thinking about how best to get at some of the root questions and issues that people sometimes wonder about.
I transitioned about 20 years ago, which was a very different time. I was very fortunate. When I transitioned at work, my employer had, months before, adopted a human rights policy that included gender identity and expression, which for me meant that I could come out and not be fired. That was a worry. I knew that I could go and talk with my union if necessary, but it was not necessary because the organization was very proactive.
For me, accessing medical care has been fine because I work in the health care system and know how to advocate. One of the things that some trans guys like me might struggle with is, depending on what organs you have, as Giselle mentioned, getting screened. What might it be like for somebody like me going for a mammogram or going for gynecological care? Many times those are set up as women's services, so what would it look like for somebody who looks like me to be sitting in a waiting room like that? There are different things like that in terms of what it's like to access health care.
I've been really fortunate in terms of family support. It took my dad about seven years. I love him, and he was supportive the entire time, but it took him about seven years to start using my name. He didn't have access to supports. As a parent, he didn't have access to the supports that he needed, to be able to know how to wrap his head around this because, again, it was a different time.