It's an amazing question. It's also a very challenging one to answer.
I would say that for a lot of people, when they discover they're pregnant or when they've given birth to their baby, they envision their future with that baby. They often envision the amount of time they've planned off work. They've prepared for that. When a baby dies and everything changes, the feeling of going back to work right away is very, very challenging.
The circumstances of loss vary greatly. Some people anticipate it coming. For others it's a complete shock. Sometimes those circumstances impact the amount of time a person might want off for leave.
This is probably not the answer you want, but I think there's no typical timeline for a family or for a person. It will be dependent on their culture and beliefs and even their grieving style. We know that for some people, returning to work is protective or healthy and something that people will want to do. That should be supported, which is why we're talking a bit about flexibility. Other people might never return to work. Everybody else is kind of in between.
We hear from most families that no time or a few weeks is not enough. I think families would probably say they need more than that. A typical time is challenging. I think for a lot of families, there are practicalities in considering a subsequent pregnancy and future baby, like needing to get back to work to accumulate time so they can qualify for leave again. We know that after loss, approximately 80% of families are pregnant within one to two years. In that time frame, people who want to qualify again for pregnancy leave or parental leave will return to work to accumulate their hours.
If they felt supported at the time of their loss, were given resources and met people who had education and training on compassionate care, they're more prepared to re-enter typical life after and to continue to integrate this loss into the rest of their life.