For me, personally, how did I get out of human trafficking? I was arrested. I had been beaten and stabbed in the stomach. My face was smashed in and my teeth knocked out, and one of my neighbours called the police. The police came, brought me to the hospital and then proceeded to put handcuffs on me. They said that the man, who was my pimp, accused me of stabbing him in the shoulder. They arrested me for assault causing bodily harm and assault with a weapon.
I ended up in jail in Toronto, and I finally got to call my mom. Those of you who know my mom know she's a fighter. My mom, Maurina Beadle, took on the Supreme Court of Canada and won Jordan's principle for her son Jeremy.
My mother is also a social worker. She saw those signs of what was happening to me. She tried to intervene, but I was lost. I was in love. I thought I knew the world and I didn't listen and I left. She worked with a police officer named Tony Ryta in Toronto. He was part of the Toronto prostitution task force. He kept her updated every day that he saw me on the street. He would talk to me and say, “You know, your mom wants you to come home.” I would ignore him.
That day that I was arrested was my saving grace, because I didn't go back there. I had boundaries and I wasn't allowed to leave Toronto and my house was within an area where I wasn't allowed to be, but my mom came up and worked with the courts to have me allowed to go back to Nova Scotia. When I went back to Nova Scotia, I was able to get into Tawaak Housing, which is a subsidized indigenous housing in Halifax. I proceeded to go to family court to win back custody of my two youngest daughters, who were under temporary custody orders with my pimp's sister. I won, and then my life changed from there.
If we look at the signs, we see that one of the signs is that all of a sudden a daughter or a two-spirited person is in love and keeping secrets and has lots of money and is taking off without telling their mother where they're going; talking about dreams in other cities and keeping the person they're dating under wraps, not wanting to introduce them to the parents.
There are a number of different red flags, but ultimately, I think one of my suggestions of what needs to happen, speaking from my experience and my mother's experience, is that we need to have a full support system for parents and loved ones who are trying to get their daughters out and trying to get their daughters home. My mother did it alone and was lucky for that connection with Tony Ryta. She felt that she was connected, that she knew that her daughter was alive.
That support needs to happen. By the time the police find you in one province, it's so quick to be gone to another province, and then the search happens again. Our parents, our loved ones, need support and love to be able to continue this fight.