That is an excellent question.
The reconciliation between Hutus and Tutsis would appear to be going well in Rwanda, according to the publications put out by various institutions. We see pictures of a widow strolling hand-in-hand with the man who killed her husband along with statements to the effect that the reconciliation is going strong.
Those claims are false, in my opinion. They make no sense. How can you overlook the fact that someone killed a loved one, especially when they weren't punished for it. They go to jail for 5 or 10 years and come back to you and say, "we can be friends now".
The genocide happened because the government recruited people and drove them to do horrible things that a normal person would never do.
The same kind of brainwashing is going on today. Survivors are being forced to go along with reconciliation and show that they are doing so. But do they really mean it? I doubt it.
Thank you.