Things aren't perfect. In fact, they never are. I always say we're like a family. I don't know how it is in yours, but in mine, things aren't always perfect.
We'll always have problems with our American friends. That's for sure. Let's put it this way: in the case of softwood lumber, it's clear that the United States knows that its position is ridiculous. However, they don't want to give it up, so the problem is endless. It's also clear that Canada is right every time, but the U.S. continues to resist. There's no doubt that it's frustrating, and it's frustrating for everyone.
I wish I had a better answer.
You're right that it's frustrating. This has been going on for years and years, but the fight over it continues. I don't know what to tell you.