It's a very difficult part for me, because I have not walked this path that I hear about when victims share from their heart what it was like after a day of work to go back home to their neighbourhood and see the person who assaulted their child enjoying life, cutting the lawn, seemingly living a life with little consequence of what they had done.
I can't identify because I have not experienced that, but the stories we hear are heart-wrenching. It's the same for the victim. If they inadvertently see the offender, their attacker, they relive it. There are these little triggers; there are words and visual triggers that bring back these memories. It's important that we protect these victims as much as possible and provide an environment for them to heal so they are not re-victimized, because they will be.
The parents will struggle. They will hurt along with their child. Every time the child hurts, the parent will hurt. It's all part of this re-victimization, which is a very sad situation.