As far as the change in language is concerned, with a change in language you can also implement a change in conditions so that it's not access, where I give you access. It's something that we both share for the benefit of our child.
Why should it be in the preamble? Well, my experience with child welfare legislation says that when you start out by saying what way things are going to go on, who's going to be the centre of it, and what the conditions are going to be, and that people's heritage and language and gender identity are going to be honoured, people know what they have going in. Whether it's courts or social workers, we know the structure of what we're going into in terms of legislation and system and expected outcome.