Thank you, Mr. Fortin.
Thank you for your question.
There's actually a great distinction between the two. One, a member of the clergy is not a licensed or regulated member of a professional college. They don't have formal training in psychology or psychiatry. Their realm is the spiritual, not the psychological, emotional or other non-faith-related needs of the human person. At the same time, in that meeting, the sole goal of the preacher was to stop the attraction itself.
In terms of the therapy I receive, the goal is not to stop the attraction to people of the same sex; the goal is to stop those sexual behaviours regardless of who it's with. It doesn't matter if I were doing those behaviours with a man, a woman or a trans individual. It doesn't matter. The goal is that the behaviour itself is unhealthy because it would put my sexual health at risk, and also my physical health and my emotional health.
The counsellor is not telling me to stop being a gay person. They're not telling me to stop being a queer person. They're not telling me to stop pursuing relationships with people of the same sex. They're saying, hey, these specific behaviours are unhealthy, and stop doing those behaviours.
In the same way that a doctor may say, hey, smoking is not good for you, or, hey, you should maybe lay off the McDonald's and try a salad instead, they're not trying to stop my actual behaviour at its roots; they're not trying to stop my attraction. They're just trying to stop the particular aspect of how I exercise that behaviour in a way that's unhealthy.