These are the kinds of conversations I have every day with my patients. They say, “If I can't take care of myself in my own home, I don't want to live any longer.” They talk about independence—not just quality of care, but having strangers wipe their bum. That's such a common statement. People can say they have really good care in their home, but they still have somebody else changing the diapers.
That is what people will talk about in terms of what is unacceptable, that there is no care level acceptable for that level of disability, because that level of disability is unacceptable.