First off, I'd have to answer by telling you this: I don't know that they're different from the rural. I'm not sure what the stats are for the rural, but I know that of the urban ones who were statistically studied, 42% were lone-parent families.
In our culture, there's a real value placed on life, on who we are, and...we have nothing to analyze statistically for this, but it is my belief, just being a part of my community for as long as I have been, that young women in our communities who may get pregnant at a very young age do not get rid of their babies. They won't give them up for adoption. They don't use abortion as a form of birth control. So they give birth to those babies because those are values we were taught.
As women in our communities, our whole premise of our worthiness is based on motherhood. We're taught from the time we're very young that being a mother is important. Even when we go to meetings now, if we sit and hear an elderly Métis woman tell us about her 13 kids and her 45 grandchildren and her 85 great-grandchildren, we sit in awe. We never say, gee, how hard was it to do that? It's something of admiration for the rest of us that this wonderful woman was able to achieve those things. Those values are perpetuated even in our young women today.
So what I believe is that many of them make choices that may not be made in other cultures. So they often have those children. Then we, of course, have problems with the child welfare system, where we're overrepresented in those systems and they're too young to take care of them and they don't have....
As I said, we used to live in small communities where auntie was next door and grandma was across the street and everybody was close to us. Well, now they're living in an urban centre where everybody is each man unto himself and may the strongest guy survive. So there are no supports in place to help those young girls raise those children.