Well, you certainly would be welcome, first off.
Madam Chair, through you, there's a lot to learn when you enter a shelter. I've been working in the shelter for a year and a half now, and it has been an awesome time of learning. What I know is that many of the women do not even know that they're being abused. They just see it as somehow they've done something wrong or they're not enough, and that is why this coercive behaviour has continued.
I think the other part is that there are many women who are in the shelter who have experienced physical violence, and it's easier to see, but what's not so easy to see is the impact that it's had on the children who enter our services. They're many times quiet, shy, tearful and cranky at times, and these children have been impacted to the point that sometimes, when they have to go to visit their parent, their behaviour changes the following day, and it can be long term.
The impact is huge, and you'd be more than welcome to come to visit us.
Thank you.