Thank you, Madam Chair, members of Parliament and members of this committee, for the opportunity to address this urgent and deeply troubling matter.
My name is Daphne Dike-Hart, and I'm the founder of Black Pride YYC and Black Pride Canada. I am here with Ugo Oparadike, communications lead, representing not only the 2SLGBTQI+ community but also the intersecting experiences of Black and queer individuals, who often bear the consequences of hate-motivated violence and systemic inequities.
We are here to discuss a crisis, one that is not theoretical, nor is it distant. It is happening right now in our communities, in our homes, in our schools. It is a crisis that puts the lives, dignity and futures of 2SLGBTQI+ individuals, particularly the youth, at great risk.
To frame this discussion, I want to share the voice of a parent of a Black trans kid from Calgary. This is her story:
“Do you know what it's like to watch hope drain from your child's face and to see it replaced with sheer panic? That is exactly what I saw when I told my 12-year-old trans daughter that Premier Danielle Smith was planning to ban gender-affirming care for people like her. I will never forget that night. Through tears, my daughter was pleading, “No, mom, no. She can't do that, can she? I can't go through that puberty. I can't. What are we going to do?”
“My daughter came out when she was eight. She was suicidal. Supporting her social transition, and the promise of accessing gender-affirming medical care, saved her life. Until the premier's recent announcement, she was thriving and happy, was doing well in school, was enjoying friends and was excelling at basketball. I fear that is all about to change. It already has. Medical care, safety at school and her beloved basketball are all getting ripped away because she's a political pawn.”
This mother's pain should haunt us all. Her daughter's story is not isolated. It is indicative of what happens when government prioritizes political posturing over the well-being of vulnerable children. These policies are not merely theoretical debates: They are life-and-death issues in countless families. Hate doesn't come from nowhere. It is nurtured by harmful words and harmful policies and by the failure by the government to act against injustice.
CSIS has warned us about the rising threats targeting the 2SLGBTQI+ community, yet we see protections in schools being taken away. Forcing teachers to out queer children to their families is dangerous, especially for the Black community, which, as a result of colonialism, is extremely homophobic and transphobic. A study published by the Journal of Family Psychology and found in the National Library of Medicine showed that “Ethnic minority parents exhibited greater parental rejection [of LGBTQ children] than ethnic majority parents, as reported by both parents and youth.”
For Black and indigenous members of the 2SLGBTQI+ community, racism makes the dangers even greater, making us targets twice over, often with less access to resources and support. This is why the federal 2SLGBTQI+ action plan and the national action plan on combatting hate are so important, but they cannot remain aspirational. They must move from ideas into actions. Funding must be directed to grassroots organizations, mental health services and advocacy groups that are already doing the work to support queer and trans lives on the ground.
Members of the House, we are not asking for special treatment; we are asking for equal rights, for the right to live without fear, for the right to see our children thrive. When governments and institutions fail to protect their most vulnerable populations, it is a failure of democracy itself.
I will leave you with this: The fight against hate is not a political issue. It is about standing up for people, for human rights, for our values as a country. It is a matter of whether we, as a country, are willing to stand by as families like the ones in Calgary live in terror, or whether we will rise to the moment, with courage, compassion and an unwavering commitment to justice. Let our kids live. Uphold humanity.
Thank you.