We need to make sure policies are in place to encourage those family members who are capable, who are loving, and who are wanting to give service to be able to do so and not at such a high cost that they resent doing it.
For example, there are people who would like to stay home and look after their parents, but if they don't work in the marketplace...you know, they need two incomes for the family to survive. So we have to make it possible for family members to be able to be paid, and there are some programs that will in fact enable that. It has to be family that is somewhat removed—it can't be your daughter or your son—but it may be possible to employ a nephew or some other family member. Particularly in rural communities where there aren't outside workers, we maybe need to think about those kinds of things.
You want to be able to put safeguards in place so you don't have people who are taking on the job to exploit an older person, but rather, where they do have the skills and they are the only ones around to support them, to make it possible for them to do so without ending up in the poor house.