I've had numerous failed relationships as a result of my injury. The mother of my child took off after I got injured. That's just one of these things that happen and it's actually quite common for relationship issues to happen. Again, you're disabled. It's very difficult to move on, especially as a man. It's very challenging. We were supposed to get married next year. For her there's really not a whole lot in the system to empower her in her career or help her out.
Recently there was a caregiver stipend brought in for those wives or significant others who have to quit their job to look after.... But even then, I feel like that probably isn't enough. There needs to be something for them, a full-time caregiver or something. When you get an injury it's not just you that's affected. It's your family.
That being said, what is the answer? I don't really know because unfortunately I've had to run through a few relationships since this has happened to me, so I really haven't had a long-term stance.
There are other members who could probably speak better to this than I can. A few names come to mind. I don't know if they're on your panel or not. Master Corporal Mike Trauner could probably speak to that. Billy Kerr's wife could probably enlighten you much better than I could. I'm just not knowledgeable enough about the study to answer your question, sir.