I think that the entire process only aggravates the situation. When we are isolated, alone, and no one is there to guide us, to help us, the feeling of rejection grows.
I was talking before about de-train. Being able to experience a form of grief, but in a group, might help avoid these kinds of situation that can lead to suicide. If we are isolated, lose this form of identity and brotherhood, and have to rebuild who we are, we no longer have benchmarks. We have nothing anymore. So it's easy to move toward suicidal thoughts.
The men I speak to often say that the woman is at home and will take care of the children. The man, in many cases, gives up. The mother tends to stay. That's one thing to consider.
Thank you.