If it's a combat veteran, family members are also entitled to assistance at veterans centres along with active duty service personnel, and that really came about only a few years ago. Again, the active service member didn't want to bring that up within DOD, because if they were not fit, there would be other issues. They could come to the veterans centre and they would be cornered off and not share any information, but they could get the treatment they need. That's part of another thing, again, to get to zero for suicide.
On June 5th, 2017. See this statement in context.