Thank you for your question.
My husband sustained mental injuries from his service.
At home, I do perform all of the instrumental activities of daily living, but my husband is able to perform the activities of daily living. The difference between them is that he's able to dress himself, feed himself and bathe himself on his own, but everything that turns around everyday life—such as cooking a meal, getting groceries or doing laundry—he is not able to do on his own.
The caregiver recognition benefit was made to recognize caregivers who perform activities of daily living. Therefore, it was made to compensate women or caregivers who help people bathe, dress and feed themselves.
I did apply initially for that recognition benefit, because when we initially received the information, it was for any caregiver who helped, for example, with errands for a veteran. That was actually written in one of the pamphlets we received, that we were eligible for that.
We were denied. The only reason given was that my husband didn't fit the criteria. The letter I received said, “Thank you for caring for a veteran, but according to our criteria, you are not a caregiver.”