Thank you for the opportunity to speak with all of you today.
I wear many hats in relation to this issue and will attempt to speak to all of them in this short time.
I am a veteran with post-traumatic stress disorder and depression.
I was a civilian member intelligence analyst of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police and spent most of my service working on homicides and national security. My PTSD from the trauma exposure is real, but many times it was discounted in comparison to Canadian Armed Forces service members or regular members of the RCMP. This includes comments from Veterans Affairs employees stating that I am taking away resources from veterans who have lost limbs. My experience was consistent with mental health injuries not being treated or respected the same way as physical ones.
I can echo much of the testimony you've heard about processes being difficult to navigate and taking too much time. My initial decision took about a year, which is actually very good, and I needed the assistance of the bureau of pensions advocates, which is a fantastic service, to receive a fair decision a couple of years later.
Once I began having children, I realized that PTSD in either parent makes for added challenges during childbirth. At the recommendation of my psychologist and midwife, I applied to Veterans Affairs to cover a doula to help manage my PTSD during childbirth. This is a readily provided support [Technical difficulty—Editor]. After a five-minute conversation, they could all understand how little I was asking for and how much benefit it would provide.
However, processes reign. I applied in fall 2024. I provided my rationale. I provided medical documentation, and I provided research papers attesting to the benefit for PTSD. I looked into any possible health care professional who could assess me and verify my claim, but I lived in the north, so my options were limited.
I'm awaiting the result of my final level of appeal, and my daughter was born over six months ago. I walked in to meet with a Veterans Affairs representative just days before I went into labour. They suggested that the local Legion pay. This is charity I was not comfortable taking. I sought assistance from the bureau of pensions advocates, and they provided helpful advice for my appeals but said they can't help with treatment benefits. I believe this to be a major gap.
This one story is exactly the type of battle and wait that veterans and families face when seeking support from Veterans Affairs for service injuries or death. To sum it up, it's onerous, isolating, adversarial and damaging.
I am also the spouse of a veteran. To respect his privacy, I won't be sharing much about my personal experience in this regard. However, almost every day I grieve for my husband before his injury and I fight to support him and maintain my own health while doing so. I am unique in that I have VAC treatment benefits for my own service injury. These end up covering my mental health needs as a spouse. I have the treatment that many other family members need and deserve. Regular sessions with a psychologist experienced with PTSD and policing have gotten me though unbelievable circumstances. I've accessed counsellors through the VAC assistance service who describe my family as in crisis and don't know how to help us when we're just surviving.
I am also a mother. I see the impact of our service already on my very young children. I worry about their ability to access mental health care in their own right one day. I also think it's important to note that you're hearing from survivors and spouses, but the experience of children is lacking to date.
I am the co-administrator of an informal support group for spouses of RCMP members and veterans with PTSD. Our group has approximately 700 members. I invited others to testify before you, but the stigma is still significant, so you'll hear from me and from Jessica Ruth only, despite a strong following and support for this issue from the group. Until spouses find the group, many feel isolated and are in complete disbelief about what their life has become.
Divorce is an all-too-common outcome. Other women have lived with decades of abuse as they attempt to honour “in sickness and in health”.
The point I would like to make is that almost every unbelievable story is accompanied by multiple responses saying, “I completely understand and have been through similar” and then recommending counselling.
Not only do we have the role of caregiver to our veteran, but we often have the absence of a caregiver as the veteran may struggle with the capacity to provide the typical support of a spouse. It is not sufficient to fund mental health care for spouses as a caregiver. Most of the spouses I've met struggled with their member's PTSD before the member accepted their condition. Most have struggled when their member or veteran refused further treatment. Many still struggle after a divorce. Mental health care in its own right could be a lifeline for the veteran's well-being and can help their family to be healthy and continue to contribute to their communities in their own way—as nurses, teachers, social workers and in other important roles.
Finally, I am the organizer of petition e-6654 and co-organizer of the group “Improving Mental Health Care for Families and Survivors of CAF/RCMP Veterans”. The petition was inspired by Jessica Ruth, whom you heard from. What we're asking for is something the veterans ombudsman has been recommending for nearly a decade: service-related mental health treatment for families in their own right. It's unconscionable that families are still waiting to be offered more than short-term counselling and lip service when they contribute so significantly to veteran well-being and often provide support to the veteran well beyond their years of service.
The veteran community is watching. We are encouraged to see senators asking the minister about progress on this recommendation, yet we experience more sanctuary trauma when the question is answered repeatedly with a simple “There's more for us to do.” I've received more informed answers from MPs on and off this committee. It's easy to say that the minister is new, but we all know there is a team of professionals behind her that is meant to prepare her for these questions. The bureaucracy continues to fail veterans and their families.
True prevention would start with a similar study focusing on RCMP and CAF individually. For the purposes of Veterans Affairs, though, I want to leave you with the simple answer to suicide prevention and answer two questions that have been asked by members of this committee already.
MP Auguste, you've been asking for innovative approaches to preventing suicide. Sadly, VAC hasn't even figured out the basics yet. It's so fundamental that the experts don't mention it: Fund mental health treatment, independent of the veteran, for families before death, so they have the skills and capacity to support the veteran.
MP Wagantall, you asked if there is anything you should be doing immediately to help. Provide mental health treatment to families before suicide, so they can help their veteran. Fund mental health care after the veteran's death, so that the suicide effects don't ripple through families as we know they do.
Thank you.