It was a different approach, and that's the big thing. He talked to me and talked to my wife and got us to open up. For me, there was an aha moment in it, which helped me, but the big thing is that my wife's been through a lot. When you walk through a muddy puddle and get yourself muddy, when you come home, you're still going to have mud on you, and she's going to see that. She saw a lot of what I went through. I talked to a veteran recently, and he didn't realize how much his wife knows about what he went through or how it affected her.
