First of all, there's a positive element to the stoic culture. The military, like all uniformed services, is tasked with getting stuff done. When things are going sideways, we're those strange people, as you know, who run towards danger when all of the smart people run away from it.
When I talk to people who haven't been in uniform, I like to put it very simply to them. You have to realize that those who have served in uniform think differently. That's not better. That's not worse. It's just different. If you're going to meet their needs, you have to be able to speak their language and speak to them in a manner that resonates with them.
I've had veterans phone me and say, “Can you find me a clinician? I went and found one. I thought I needed help, so I put my hand up, but I went into so-and-so's office, and they can't spell ‘veteran’ or ‘first responder’.” That's because we come from a culture where we're trained that when something happens, there is an SOP for it. You do this, and then you do that, and then you do this. They want a plan. They want to see that there's something there that makes sense and that there's a goal. When it gets all lofty and fussy they think, “This civvy doesn't understand me.”
It's one of the reasons that Wounded Warriors Canada has great partnerships with other organizations, like Homewood Health and Trillium Health Partners. If they are going to see a veteran, every member of Homewood's staff has to take the introduction to trauma-exposed professionals course that Wounded Warriors Canada offers online.
I suggest that members of the committee email me their contact numbers, and I'll enrol you in the course for free. You need to take it just to understand. It's five hours. It's asynchronous. It's online. It's taught by our national clinical director, Dr. Tim Black. That's important. I know we had the same relationship with that program with Atlas because we're collaborating together.
The problem with stoic culture is, of course, that when you bring something out of the “doing your job” atmosphere and bring it into your home and wider society, A, people don't understand it, and B, it doesn't really work that well in other situations. We need to understand where they're coming from and treat them in a manner that....
The other thing is that if you don't deal with trauma, nothing else matters. I emphasized this line twice. I did that on purpose. It's not because I forgot that I said it. That is the truth. If you don't deal with trauma, nothing else matters.
