Thank you very much.
First of all, before I begin my presentation, I will say that I am not an academic. I'm a dad; I'm a father. I have a teenage daughter and a son. I am also a middle school teacher. I've taught for many different years in different parts of Canada. Having teenagers at home and teaching and working in a middle school, issues around kids, especially, of course, issues like cyberbullying, are a huge part of my life. You have already heard from learned academics, and I greatly respect the work of the other folks who have presented today. I respect and admire their work, and I'm proud that the Canadian Teachers' Federation has seen fit to include a little bit of my work in some of their publications. With that as a bit of a backdrop, I'll continue.
My presentation is called,“Cyberbullying: What we know, What Should Be Done”. My history around the issue of cyberbullying goes back to 13 years ago when I created and launched the website, bullying.org. It was in response to a horrific event that happened here in Alberta at a high school where a young man went into the school and took another young man's life. It turns out that, unlike Columbine which was not actually about bullying, in this case bullying was a significant issue. I just felt as a dad, as a teacher, and as a citizen I needed to do something. So I created the website bullying.org as a safe place where kids can go to find help, support, and information. Basically, it's a place to share your voice through stories, poetry, artwork, music, video. We actually had people uploading video to our site before YouTube was invented. We read all the submissions and all the replies.
Over a decade ago, not long after the website went online, we began to read about young people reporting stories about being bullied online. This came from parts of the world like Asia, Scandinavia, the United Kingdom. The reason is that their smartphones or their phones were far in advance of what we had in Canada at the time. I thought, okay, this is something quite new and different. So I borrowed from the Canadian science fiction writer named William Gibson, the one who coined the term “cyberspace”, and I simply thought, if this is bullying and it's happening in cyberspace, I can put the two together, and I coined the term “cyberbullying”.
I proposed this definition years ago and it's held up fairly well, although I know academics are constantly arguing about some of the nuances. But what makes it bullying in any form is that it's deliberate, repeated, and there's an intention to harm others. What happens here, though, is it happens to be in cyberspace and it's using various information technologies. That's when I came up with that particular definition.
I thought what I'd do is summarize this, if you will, in terms of tweets. I'm sure most of you are familiar with tweets, which are short messages. You can post up to 140 characters. So I thought about some of the main points I could make in the form of tweets, if you will.
I think we need to rethink bullying as an issue. We need to really look clearly at what cyberbullying actually is. We need to understand that there needs to be a strong family focus to this. We need to understand, from my point of view, that prevention is the priority. This law, the proposed bill, will likely create ripples in the adult world, but I believe its effect in the world that I live in, that of teenagers, will be modest at best. So I think that prevention needs to be our priority.
I think we as adults need to understand that there's no B chromosome. People aren't born bullies. Bullying is a behaviour. It's learned. We adults, myself as a dad, as a teacher, as a citizen, need to become much more aware of and conscious of our own actions and behaviours, because children and young people don't necessarily learn what we tell them about or lecture them about. They much more readily emulate the behaviours that we present in front of them. That means in person and online.
We need to train teachers. I'm a proud member of the Canadian Teachers' Federation, and the Alberta Teachers' Association, but I will tell you that the vast majority of teachers in Canada, when they go to university, do not get training about bullying. It's like having nurses and doctors who aren't trained to help the public with the flu, which is unthinkable today. Not only was that the situation when I graduated from a great school, a four-year teacher education program, unfortunately it is still true for many young people who are getting ready to graduate now. That needs to change.
When we're looking at what cyberbullying is actually like in terms of kids, and we're thinking about what impact legislation might have, we have to understand what the mindset is of kids when they're involved in these things. I do understand that adults have been impacted by cyberbullying as well, but I'm a dad and a teacher, so my focus and my sharing will be around young people.
I call it the perfect storm, the idea of “net-izenship” or what it means to be a digital citizen, and the corporate world needing to be part of the solution, and what I call wheel alignment.
I will try to speak to these things quickly. I do apologize if I go fast. I have two decades' worth of thinking to present in a short time, so I'll do the best I can.
With regard to rethinking bullying, we need to understand that bullying is not a normal part of growing up; it's not a rite of passage. We need to rethink bullying not simply as a school issue, as we have done often in the past, but as a community health and wellness issue. Cyberbullying really illustrates this point because most cyberbullying, the research tells us clearly, happens away from school. We need to be very clear that cyberbullying is bullying, and I always appreciate how hurtful this is. They didn't grow up with it, but it is incredibly harmful.
Cyberbullying is not so much a technology issue. Technology is an amplifier. It amplifies the best of who we are as human beings and, unfortunately, the worst, including things like cyberbullying.
From my point of view, after thinking and working on this issue for over a decade, cyberbullying is actually about people and relationships and choices. A hammer can be used to harm someone, but a hammer can also be used to build beautiful edifices. It's not the hammer, the Black and Decker or Stanley hammer, that's the issue, or whether it's a cellphone or Facebook. Those are tools, incredibly powerful tools, but it's what we choose to do with them that's really the issue.
When we look at addressing cyberbullying appropriately, we need to have a family focus. We, as parents, myself included, need to become much more aware and engaged in our kids' online activities and behaviours. We would never think of giving our kids the keys to the car and telling them to go for a drive on the Queensway or the 401, yet every day parents line up at the local mall to include their kids in cellphone contracts and hand their kids cellphones. The cellphone, in my opinion as a technology teacher for many years, is the most powerful communicative tool in the history of mankind. It is literally bringing down governments, yet we blithely give our kids these incredibly powerful tools without really appreciating that very much.
We need to focus on prevention through education and awareness. Laws and policies have their place, but they tend to be mostly reactive and punitive. In a way, it's almost like putting a Band-Aid on a gaping wound: the damage has already been done. I'm sure it would be no surprise to you that as an educator I think it's much better to focus our time, energy, and resources on prevention through education.
We, as adults, need to walk the walk and not just talk the talk. I am a social studies teacher. I'm not making a political point here; I'm making a behavioural point. When we begin our social studies class we talk about the news. One day one of my students came in and said, “Mr. Belsey, what is this all about?” As a teacher, I'm rarely lost for words, but I truly was lost for words in trying to explain how it was that our political leaders were doing this to one another. We wonder why it is that kids are cyberbullying. Again, bullying is a behaviour and it's learned. All of us as adults, myself included, but leaders at the highest levels, including in the House of Commons, our leaders in Ottawa, need to understand that kids are aware of these sorts of images. Youth remember and emulate what adults do, not so much what we say. That is critically important.
What can be done with regard to education? We need to train teachers. I've made this point already, so I won't go over that again. Most teachers are not trained, and they need to be.
What is to be done? First of all, I have a couple of quick words about what not to do. We shouldn't use a fear-based approach. Too many times the police, who have an incredibly difficult job, or the RCMP, who I respect very much, get invited to go into schools to talk about these issues. Unfortunately, if you go into a high school or middle school and talk about how awful the Internet is and how terrible cellphones are, you get the dreaded rolling of eyes. We shouldn't give the FOG, fear of God, speech. We need not address this through fear.
We also shouldn't chase technology. Right now schools are struggling to decide whether to allow cellphones in the classroom. In my class, it's something that happens all the time; we use our cellphones like hand-held computers. But a lot of schools are really struggling with this. Google has already launched the Google glasses so we'll have wearable computers.
On the idea of chasing down websites or chasing technology, we, as adults and teachers and others, don't have the time to do this, and there are no quick fixes. You can put a filter in your school system or in your home, and you can throw a boulder into the Ottawa River, but just as with the digital world, the water will find a way around it.
There is this idea that I like to talk about called the fallacy of control. It used to be that only the kids in schools who had pocket protectors, known as nerds and geeks, knew what a proxy server was. Now, the average high school student knows exactly what a proxy server or a circumventor is. They know how to get around all these filters. We pretend to do our due diligence, but we're kind of fooling ourselves. We have to get real when we deal with this issue.
When we're thinking about a bill and what—