But security should also be defined. As feminists, we can't be satisfied with giving women a few more seconds to select their clients as an adequate way to ensure their security.
If it were possible to know which men were violent, we wouldn't have any abuse shelters in Canada or sexual assault centres. Having a few additional seconds, and sometimes even living with a man for years, doesn't allow women to know when a man is going to turn violent.
As far as the commodification aspect is concerned, I'm a bit shocked at how your're minimizing our arguments.