I think I see what you're getting at. I'm trying to do a little parallel here. As a gay man, I have quite often been told that I haven't been discriminated against, by someone who didn't have an understanding of what had actually happened. I'm using that as a parallel. I think that's what you're getting at. Sometimes the person hasn't had lived experience, or they don't have a detailed understanding of how discrimination functions. Something, on its face, might not appear as discriminatory.
Is that what we're talking about here?