I do think it's appropriate as it is written because the perpetrator is in control of the victim. The perpetrator is using specific tactics in order to manage the victim and make the victim feel as though they are responsible for the violence being perpetrated against them.
They will convince the victim that it is in their best interest, such as around controlling the family finances or maybe, in subtle ways, that they shouldn't be able to go out and see family and friends.
It wouldn't.... Excuse me. I'm just a little bit nervous.