When Markus had his first negative scan, it was six months into his treatment, and at that meeting with his oncology team, the Canuck Place Children's Hospice nurses and doctors were already part of that meeting. His palliative care was already engaged at that point. They knew Markus. They knew our family. They knew how to care for him when it came time to transfer all of his care into the Canuck Place Children's Hospice from BC Children's Hospital.
As I said earlier, it was incredibly comforting to know that they were always one step ahead of us. The resources that are allocated to the care for children who have terminal illness in a palliative condition appear to be far superior than those allocated to people in the adult world.
As I shared, my uncle and his family spent the last few months of his life scrambling around trying to find the right medications, the right treatment, what to do when, how to do it, whereas every day when they would come to our house, the Canuck Place hospice nurses would assess Markus and say, “I think we need this type of medication” or “We need an extra dose of this type of medication to treat this” or “Let's bring in some more bedding”, or pillows or oxygen. Whatever it had to be, they were always ahead of us.
That allowed Markus to enjoy—as you see in the pictures even the very day before he passed away—every moment he had that he was alive and to not miss out on those unnaturally interrupted beautiful experiences that would not have happened if he had chosen medical assistance in dying far earlier.