I think it's important, certainly to the people who served and to the families.
I can recall, and Dusty would agree with this, that we had a situation where a media person was on one of the ships, and not much was going on in the interdiction. We were just doing our thing on the gulf interdiction, and he was bored, so he talked to a young sailor on the wing, and the guy says, “I'm kind of lonely, and I want to go home.” This thing blew up in The Globe and Mail, I think it was, if I recall correctly.
Anyway, it got people really upset. The families back home heard this and said, “Hey, they all want to come home. What's going on here?” It became a big foofaraw in Halifax, and it took quite a bit of work by the admiral down there and the staff to say, “Hey, this is not the case.” We had to send messages back to our families saying that it was one sailor, and he was lonely, and he wanted to get back to talk to his family. They were doing an awful lot for us.
I think, you know, it comes on the families. I know my own family was well aware of where I was and what I was doing, and they had their fears. My daughter and my young son very much wanted dad to be home. It's a hard thing. You're there. The anxiety is there. I think in many ways—and maybe Dusty would agree with this—because we were there and we knew what was going on, we could understand what was happening, but they didn't know that back in Halifax. They didn't know that back in Valcartier or places like that. We may have been more comfortable, but the families were not so much. They weren't at ease. Let's put it that way. The families are very much a part of it.
One of the good things we did was have good communication. If mom was having trouble with Johnny, mom could get on the phone and talk to her husband. The husband could then get on the phone to Johnny and say, “Come on, get your act together. Do what your mother says.” We were able to establish that type of communication during the Gulf War, which we had never done in operations before, so there are things we have done. That was Inmarsat. We were able to do that type of thing. It certainly gave a lot of comfort to the families when things went awry.