Yes, for support for their loved ones, it would be to make sure they go and get the help they need, because a lot of veterans are proud, and they will not go out or want to show any vulnerability or weakness. It's not a weakness to reach out for help—don't get me wrong on that—but it's perceived that way in some cases, when you're told to be tough and to do your job and not complain. It's different when you get out of the military. You have to be your own advocate, and that's where families can step in.
I see a lot of couples who come to my office for help. It's generally the wife who will come—in some cases, it is the husband who is the spouse of a military woman—but it's often the spouses. You watch their faces and you can tell when something's not honest with the veteran—you know, whether they're trying to downplay an injury or say, “Oh, I don't need that benefit.” Sometimes you have to shame them a bit and say, “Well, maybe you don't need that right now, but you have to think about your spouse in the future. If something happens to you today, maybe your spouse can benefit from something.”
I think it's about taking families into consideration. They're the ones behind the veteran, supporting them every day, day in and day out, 24-7, and they could be given greater support on their own for that.