They answer the phone and open the door. I'm sorry. That's as blunt as I can get, because when a human trafficking survivor is ready to exit, you have to move immediately, because if you don't.... The fact that they're starting to become unhinged emotionally, mentally, socially and physically.... Maybe their sobriety is at risk again or they're medicating. They're going to slip up with a trafficker and we could find them at the bottom of a lake or a river, or somewhere else.
I'm not exaggerating this. This is exactly what we go through. We've experienced it in your riding. I have driven to your office and on the way brought girls either in or out to where they need to go to get safe, because we're calling places and they have no beds available. They're shopping whether the survivor's suitable for their placement, even though there are allocated survivor beds in most agencies that they will not tell you about.
From there, once you get them through, they can't go through regular programming. They need to just sleep and heal at the beginning. The stages of recovery are different. If we're going to treat them and say, “You're on a schedule. You have to get up. You have to do chores. You have to do this,” they're out of there and back to their trafficker, or they're going to recruit within, or they're going to cause problems and you're going to say they're non-compliant. When they get referrals to another shelter.... I have a girl who was in 30 group homes, foster placements and shelters by the time she was 16. She was so non-compliant because she had been institutionalized by the lack of care and concern that they had to move her to three different child protection services communities. They turn her out at eight o'clock in the morning. How is turning somebody out at eight o'clock in the morning helpful for their trauma care in any instance?
Stage two is helping them with basic life skills, their educational needs and the other things to help reintegrate them into a healthy life that doesn't include violence.
The next stage is helping them figure out how to budget and how to put their housing needs together. They then choose to move—they are not forced to move—rebuild their lives and continue the good cycle. Maybe they'll offer basement apartments that are legal to somebody else who needs help. That's how I started.
