I'm speaking for Nancy.
Over 30 years ago we experienced the stillbirth of our daughter Angel at 20 weeks' gestation. That's far enough along to have fingerprints and eyebrows but not far enough along to meet the world. At that time, and still largely today, this type of loss at 20 weeks falls into a legislative grey area.
Nancy was not eligible for maternity benefits. She was granted one week of leave by the employer. Within those seven days of notifying family and friends, arranging a funeral and burial, supporting our own six-year-old daughter as she went through her first experience meeting death, all of that had to occur ahead of processing our own physical and emotional trauma in the situation.
There were challenges to premature job re-entry. After a week, it's not a full recovery. It's a survival tactic...for the bank. Anyway, in Nancy's case, she was marked with extreme exhaustion and the constant threat of public triggers, such as encountering an infant on a public transit commute—that nearly broke her resolve.
Furthermore, Nancy witnessed the unique burdens placed on me, her husband, as I was expected to be strong despite having even fewer support structures than she did. Bill C-222 is essential because that can provide recognition for both parents, if needed, to give them time and financial security while healing from a trauma.
There's a growing need for this. When we took over the Metro Vancouver Empty Cradle Bereaved Parents Society in 2005, we hoped the need for such a group would eventually diminish, but instead, our outreach has grown. We have over 350 families on our mailing list, and this highlights a painful truth. Medical care has advanced, but the financial and emotional safety nets for grieving parents have not.
Thus, Nancy recommends that newly bereaved Canadian parents should not have to choose between financial survival and mental health, and urges the committee to pass Bill C-222 without delay. Let us ensure that the next generation of parents has the support that was unavailable to our family.
Now, in addition to that, I have my own observations that are worth sharing here. I found that, as a father and in working through Empty Cradle's peer support group, I did not find any clarity within Canada's Labour Code regarding workplace bereavement after a stillbirth. We had to wing it. Sadly, this has not changed much in the intervening time. I had to negotiate for an additional three days of leave—not much—and had to take those days from my allotted vacation time. Then, upon return, I faced the emotional trauma of workplace triggers. A few days after the stillbirth, a co-worker dropped by, not knowing that we had suffered loss, to show off their newborn child. I was not well equipped to handle this so soon after our loss.
A short-term return to work situation after a loss, therefore, has a few flaws, which often have an impact on workplace retention. While working with Empty Cradle, we have often heard of reduced emotional capacity, as grieving parents are less capable of managing workplace stresses or conflicts with co-workers, certain staff or clients, and this too has led to forced resignations. We've witnessed cases in which a teacher or a child care worker and others were forced to basically bail on their employment situations. Financial need had driven them back to work before they were emotionally or physically ready to do what their job routinely entailed. It is not economically efficient, in those cases, to have inadequate leave leading to unsuccessful reintegration and increased work conflicts, and, after having to leave a job, more difficult EI claims due to such job loss.
We recommend that, within the focus of Bill C-222, this committee carefully consider the following. How about timeline parity? Recovery from an infant loss typically requires a timeline similar to that after a live birth. Both situations involve significant physical and psychological demands, including the risk of postpartum depression, which is too often a factor after a loss, not just after a normal birth, and, if present, is usually detected weeks after the birth situation.
There are now also complex medical diagnoses. More recently, parents are being faced with ethical dilemmas regarding whether to even continue with a pregnancy after discovering a major health issue or a terminal condition. They so require the financial backstop of this bill to give them time to process consenting to a life-altering decision without having to think about the financial fears on top of their medical trauma. It is nearly impossible to discuss these situations with family, friends or co-workers around a pregnancy termination decision.
What about the gig economy? We understand that this may be outside the scope of this bill, but we must highlight that contract workers and gig workers will remain unprotected. I would encourage this committee to keep those vulnerable workers in mind for legislative scrutiny whenever any employment status loopholes are possibly detected.
In conclusion, properly worded legislation within Canada's employment framework will reduce or prevent job re-entry difficulties that we and so many others have faced in such situations.
Thank you again, Mr. Chair, for your time, and thank you to the committee and other witnesses for working to make Bill C-222 a robust support for all Canadians.