Mr. Chair, members of the committee, I'm very honoured to be with you today.
My name is Janie Tremblay. I am the executive director of Les Perséides perinatal bereavement support, a Quebec City organization that has specialized in family psychosocial support and professional training for over a decade.
I have personally been involved with the organization for five years, as I myself lost a baby at 23 weeks of pregnancy. I was entitled to 18 weeks of benefits from the Quebec Parental Insurance Plan, or QPIP, but I needed to take more time to get back on my feet, since I was unable to return to work.
Today, I would like to draw your attention to the voices of the hundreds of families who share deeply painful stories with us and who, in addition to grieving, face administrative barriers. Ms. Meunier's and Ms. Desbiens's work clearly shows this, and that's what we're seeing on the ground.
The psychological distress after the loss of a child is deep and intense. Our team recently supported a mother with suicidal ideation, self-harm and extreme anger towards the health care system. She was unable to return to work.
We also see isolated mothers who spend their days looking at pictures of their babies and fathers whose suffering is invisible and who numb their own grief to provide for their families. We see the impact on siblings as parents try to take care of their children despite having almost no energy.
Let me put a few faces to the realities that I'm telling you about.
Christina lost her little Félix aged 35 days and then Elliot two years later at 19 weeks of pregnancy. To this day, she is still living with diagnosed post-traumatic stress and needs to be medicated in order to negotiate her daily life. She is engaged in ongoing psychological counselling. After Félix died, she was entitled to only two weeks of benefits. Quebec parental leave recognizes only the physical, non-psychological aspects of the ordeal.
Her spouse had to go back to work on the Monday. Their baby had died on the Saturday. He was entitled to nothing. He had to claim illness. Fortunately, he had good insurance.
Another family received no help at all. A father was denied a work stoppage because he wasn't the one who carried the child. Their baby was stillborn at 38 weeks. Another one told us: “I have to throw my grief in the garbage. I'll collapse when the dust settles.”
A few days after a stillbirth, a family received the baby's family allowance and health insurance card. They had to return them while dealing with the trauma of the forms and the coroner's inquest.
Then there is the family of little Simon, who died aged 11 months. A godmother had to launch a GoFundMe drive so she could get a breather. In 2026, parents should not have to rely on charity to grieve.
Our current system is based on luck, the employer, insurance and online generosity.
This bill is a humane and necessary step forward. Ending the administrative burden is an act of basic dignity. In addition, the act covers both parents, since both of them have lost a child.
With all due respect to this work, I have to tell you that a large number of bereaved families are still being neglected. In our organization, we support all forms of grief, whether due to miscarriage, stillbirth, medical termination of pregnancy or other. Thousands of families remain without adequate protection, and we feel that their distress is very real.
I urge you to initiate this very important discussion.
I also suggest you read the brief submitted by the Table de concertation nationale sur le deuil périnatal in January. We presented it to the Quebec finance minister. The brief contains recommendations that are simple and inexpensive.
I would also like to talk to you about investment because, like you, I am concerned about the sound use of public funds. Every parent who is not allowed to grieve means a vulnerable worker, a collapsing family and a health care system that absorbs years of untreated distress. Prevention always costs less than a cure.
If Canada leads the way, the provinces will follow. Our organization will continue to support, educate and train, but we have no leverage on the factors that force an early return to work. Committee members, you have that power. Perinatal bereavement is a family issue, but it's also a societal issue. What is the price of giving families time to recover with dignity?
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to speak on behalf of those affected by your decisions.